“Wow… Gayle King claim to be a great friend to Orpah but suppose she discovered, after all these years, that it was Orpah that set up her husband with the woman she caught him with and made sure she got home just in time to catch them getting busy??? I don’t believe that Gayle King or Orpah should be giving relationship advise to young black women because the only relationship that exist between the two of them is a BFF Friendship… The sad thing about this scenario is the DAMAGE these two women are doing to young black women planning a future…”

Wow… Gayle King you claim to be a great friend to Orpah but suppose you discovered, after all these years, that it was Orpah that set up your husband with the woman you caught him with and made sure you got home just in time to catch them getting busy??? 

https://www.oprahmag.com/entertainment/a27165071/oprah-gayle-og-chronicles-stedman-family-drama/ 

Would you still be BFF or would that be another (ugly) Shade of the Color Purple???

I say this from experience because I was a faithful black man in my marriage but it still ended in divorce…
I never understood why???
As God would have it, some 20 years later, my Ex BFF, who I knew called me to confess that she knew my Ex cheated on me throughout our entire marriage…She said she knew she should have told me before then but she didn’t…  I believe it was probably her husband (who I also knew from College days) who my Ex was cheating with…
This man died shortly after his wife called me to confess the TRUTH to me…
He was in his mid 50s…
I thanked her for telling me with her confession because it answered a lot of questions for me…
Shortly after her husbands death my Ex BFF also died…
She was also in her mid 50s… 

I said all of that to say, things aren’t always as they appear…  If my Ex BFF had not called me with her confession I would have never suspected her or her husband having anything to do with my divorce…
I don’t believe that Gayle King or Orpah should be giving relationship advise because the only relationship that exist between the two of them is a BFF Friendship…  Gayle King been divorced for many years so what does she know about relationship accept when the going gets rough quit and get out…
There isn’t any need even to address what Orpah may or may not know about relationship because there isn’t any evidence to prove anything different…  It appears to me her and Stedman have a business relationship so how can she relate to any one in a committed relationship – NOT???
The sad thing about this scenario is the DAMAGE these two women are doing to young black women planning a future…  I see them all the time – homeless in cars and on park benches…  And when I inquire why she doesn’t have a man to help  her  through the rough times, they say something stupid like the advise I hear Gayle and Orpah giving… So I leave them where I find them… 

I met a black young lady who had this – pie in the sky  mentality – like Gayle and Orpah advise, but she was down and out on the street…  I tried to give her some real world advice like where to eat and where to sleep but she was so indoctrinated against doing what God intended – woman meet  man – and the two build a relationship together that I left her as I found her…
Last I heard she was in jail for stealing…
Therefore from my perspective Orpah advise is kryptonite for a young black woman and for the black community at large…

“Wow… Gayle King claim to be a great friend to Orpah but suppose she discovered, after all these years, that it was Orpah that set up her husband with the woman she caught him with and made sure she got home just in time to catch them getting busy???  I don’t believe that Gayle King or Orpah should be giving relationship advise to young black women because the only relationship that exist between the two of them is a BFF Friendship… The sad thing about this scenario is the DAMAGE these two women are doing to young black women planning a future…”

“Wow… Anyone can call a person a Master who made it; On the other hand there are people like Dr. Miller Lucky, who is Professor of Theatre Arts at NCA&T Greensboro NC… aka “Lucky Guy” (pun intended)…. :-)”

 

Wow… Anyone can call a person a Master who made it, by really no means of their own, save someone NOTICED them and gave them a hand up…  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4sROiT1DWg …

On the other hand there are people like Dr. Miller Lucky, who is Professor of Theatre Arts at NCA&T Greensboro NC

 

who never made the BIG LEAGUE but who is a Master Professor of Theatre Arts… How does one explain that??? It sound to me that Whoopi called it LUCK… With a name like Miller Lucky, one would think that Dr. Lucky would be a ‘Lucky Guy’ (pun intended)…. 🙂 

 

Now that’s another “Shade of the Color Purple…” 

 

“Wow… Anyone can call a person a Master who made it; On the other hand there are people like Dr. Miller Lucky, who is Professor of Theatre Arts at NCA&T Greensboro NC… aka “Lucky Guy” (pun intended)…. :-)”

“Wow… MM 3:18 – She is an African Immigrant therefore she doesn’t understand the history behind the pains of 400 years of Black American (PTSD of Slavery) History…”

 

Wow… MM 3:18 – She is an African Immigrant therefore she doesn’t understand the history behind the pains of 400 years of Black American (PTSD of Slavery) History…

 

 

The Ancestors Speak
Poem By:
John Angus Jacobs

We’ve lived through persecution, mutilation, social devastation, excruciating pain;
Bondage, shackles, thrashings, bashing;
the ravaging of the motherland… 

We’ve survived starvation, dehydration, inflammation, that horrible trip;
Tossing, tipping, constant dipping, sea sickness, the belly of the ship…

 

We’ve endured indignation, humiliation, sequestration, the stripping of our souls;
Desecration, degeneration, castration, the market place, being sold…  

 

We’ve drudged through war, brother against brother, blood, Mason Dixon, the blue and grey;
Destruction, emancipation, reconstruction, forty acres, broken promises;
What mule;
No pay…   

Civil Rights, U,S,A, pic: 30th March 1968, Memphis, Tennessee, Guardsmen with fixed bayonets in Beale Street, Memphis as black marchers stage a protest march (Photo by Rolls Press/Popperfoto/Getty Images)

We’ve overcome racism, discrimination, segregation, deprivation, generations of being second class;   
alienation, degradation, mortification, all sorts of derogatory;
Thank god, free at last…   

Now we live with a simulation of freedom, equality,
prosperity, liberty, and justice for all;
The black,
the green, 

the red,
the white,
the blue;

African, American;
Standing strong;
Standing tall…

So never, never, never, never, never;
Forget!!!           

“Wow… MM 3:18 – She is an African Immigrant therefore she doesn’t understand the history behind the pains of 400 years of Black American (PTSD of Slavery) History…”

 

“Wow… I believe Bob Mueller must have been listening to Prince – Still Would Stand All Time (Trojan Horse Aftershow 1988) on continuous replay the entire time he was finishing his Collusion Report and his message is CLEAR…”

Wow… I believe Bob Mueller must have been listening to Prince – Still Would Stand All Time (Trojan Horse Aftershow 1988) on continuous replay the entire time he was finishing his Collusion Report and his message is CLEAR…  https://www.politico.com/interactives/2019/mueller-report-legal-analysis/ 

 

“No one man will be ruler,
therefore love must rule us all
Dishonesty,
anger,
fear,
jealousy
and greed will fall
Love can save us all
Oh, love, love, oh love if you would just please give us a sign
Still would stand all time…”
   

“Image: The Trojan Horse. Your guile is hidden inside a magnificent gift that proves irresistible to your opponent. The walls open. Once inside, wreak havoc.”
— Robert Greene, The 48 Laws of Power

And we know why the Greeks left that horse on the Trojan’s doorsteps???
Still would stand all time…
I am just saying…

“Wow… I believe Bob Mueller must have been listening to Prince – Still Would Stand All Time (Trojan Horse Aftershow 1988) on continuous replay the entire time he was finishing his Collusion Report and his message is CLEAR…”

“Wow… I believe Gayle King and R Kelly had a ‘Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper’ moment when Gayle King said so calmly that -now infamous word -“Robert!!!” Gayle King could actually become R. Kelly’s salvation and rescue him from this downward spiral like Uncle Charlie’s woman did for him when he was down and out… Do you feel me???”

Wow… What a week Gayle King has had and she did it all on her own…
Now ‘little girl blue’ probably feel like the words of this great song by R Kelly – I Believe I Can Fly 

(LP Version) (Official Music Video) https://youtu.be/GIQn8pab8Vc 
Gayle King can now call her OWN shots with @CBSThisMorning and probably any network she chooses… I believe Gayle King and R Kelly had a ‘Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper’ moment when Gayle King said so calmly that -now infamous word -“Robert!!!” 

 

Wow… I felt it then and I feel it everytime I hear her say it in reruns – it was a genuine moment of concern for the black man “Robert…”
I believe R. Kelly, like most black men of our generation, are suffering from the PTSD of slavery and the hardships of growing up in extreme poverty… 

 

From acclaimed author and researcher Dr. Joy DeGruy comes this fascinating book that explores the psychological and emotional impact on African Americans after enduring the horrific Middle Passage, over 300 years of slavery, followed by continued discrimination.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLCm421oCOI

From the beginning of American chattel slavery in the 1500’s, until the ratification of the Thirteenth Amendment in 1865, Africans were hunted like animals, captured, sold, tortured, and raped. They experienced the worst kind of physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual abuse. Given such history, Dr. Joy DeGruy asked the question, “Isn’t it likely those enslaved were severely traumatized? Furthermore, did the trauma and the effects of such horrific abuse end with the abolition of slavery?” 

 

I believe as a coping mechanism R. Kelly did what most of us black men learned to do ‘Back-N-Da-Day’ is live out of our right brain; tap into all that creative energy using it to sing our way out or ball our way out or run our way out of poverty…  Where does the world think the LeBron James’s and the Michael Jordan’s and the Michael Jackson’s (and the list goes on) came from??? 

SANTA MARIA, CA – JUNE 1: Michael Jackson arrives for his child molestation trial on at the Santa Barbara County Courthouse arrives for his child molestation trial on at the Santa Barbara County Courthouse June 1, 2005 in Santa Maria, California. Jackson is charged in a 10-count indictment with molesting a boy, plying him with liquor and conspiring to commit child abduction, false imprisonment and extortion. (Photo by Aaron Lambert-Pool/Getty Images)

Now unlike Gayle King, who was a diplomat’s daughter (The R&B Singer and the Diplomat’s Daughter), R. Kelly had to hustle and fight his way to the top;   therefore all he had was his dreams of reaching the top; where his right brain imagination imagined… 
I am sure R. Kelly heard it and felt it too… The one thing a black man absolutely crave is to hear a beautiful black woman call his name… Hell Prince wrote song about “Call my name!!!” https://youtu.be/MdPXM-p7IFY 

Wow… What a moment for all times…  Gayle King could actually become R. Kelly’s salvation and rescue him from this downward spiral like Uncle Charlie’s woman did for him when he was down and out

R&B artist Charlie Wilson was diagnosed with prostate cancer in September, 2008 after his wife, Mahin, urged him to have a prostate screening. Today they are working with the Prostate Cancer Foundation to raise awareness for the disease and funding for research. Photo: Kevin Winter

…  Now that would be a great story because sometime, instead being a Misandrist, a black woman has to be a ‘Good Samaritan’ (Luke 10:25-37 KJV) for a black man…

Now that would really be a different “Shade of the Color Purple…”
Except in this story of “Humpty Dumpty” a (Gayle) King does come along and puts R. (Humpty Dumpty) Kelly back together again…
“Do you feel me???”

“Wow… I believe Gayle King and R Kelly had a ‘Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper’ moment when Gayle King said so calmly that -now infamous word -“Robert!!!” Gayle King could actually become R. Kelly’s salvation and rescue him from this downward spiral like Uncle Charlie’s woman did for him when he was down and out… Do you feel me???”

“Wow… Now this is a Beautiful Strong Black Woman that’s a TRUE Representative of Black Woman’s Day!!! Senator Flowers of the Arkansas Senate…”

Wow…  Now this is a Beautiful Strong Black Woman  that’s a TRUE Representative of  Black Woman’s Day!!!  Senator Flowers of the Arkansas Senate… 

This is powerful. pic.twitter.com/TJcGJ8opOh

— Bakari Sellers (@Bakari_Sellers) March 8, 2019

Senator Flowers of the Arkansas Senate the TRUE Representative of Woman’s Day; NOT Oprah Winfrey or Gayle King like the white media has promoted all day for their “TAKE DOWN” of two Black men…  

That’s why I believe Orpah Winfrey and Gayle King are Black Misandrist…  I believe Senator Flowers  is the “Harriet Tubman” of our day …   I hope the Black Community especially her peers reach out to her and show her some love and appreciation for STANDING IN THE GAP for our Black Brothers and Sisters…

“Wow…  Now this is a Beautiful Strong Black Woman  that’s a TRUE Representative of  Black Woman’s Day!!!  Senator Flowers of the Arkansas Senate…”

 

Wow… I believe R. Kelly is suffering from PTSD Left Over effect of Slavery and extreme childhood poverty that a lot of Black men of my generation suffers from… The Left-side of the brain is responsible for control of the right side of the body, and is the more academic and logical which is the side most ordinary (normal) people live… But Super-Creative High -Energy personalities live out of the right brain; I believe this is where R. Kelly lives…

Wow… Gayle King I believe R. Kelly is suffering from PTSD Left Over effect of Slavery and extreme childhood poverty that a lot of Black men of my generation suffers from… I call it Right-side short of the body brain relationship… The Left-side of the brain is responsible for control of the right side of the body,

http://brainmadesimple.com/left-and-right-hemispheres.html
and is the more academic and logical which is the side most ordinary (normal) people live… But Super-Creative High -Energy personalities live out of the right brain; I believe this is where R. Kelly lives… I believe instead of demonizing R. Kelly we as a Black Community should first walk in his childhood shoes or look through his childhood lenses… 

I believe it is the Left-Side of the Brain that is most deficient as a result of PTSD of Slavery and Extreme Poverty which causes the victim to depend on the coping functions of the Right side of the Brain where all the creativity and imagination lives…  I believe R. Kelly who has not killed anyone and I believe the women that are with him are legal and grown…

Gayle King asking a grown black man about his living situation is opening Pandora’s box of civil liberties violations for all households and relationships ie LGBT couples of all kinds… R. Kelly Passionate defense to you has convinced me that he doesn’t believe he is doing anything illegal???  

I believe that’s R. Kelly’s situation – Suffering From PTSD of Slavery and childhood poverty – like most black men of his generation,  But “Dastardly Deed” – NOT…   The following situation I believe is an example of a “Dastardly Deed…”

https://youtu.be/kWAsFab0MDQ
This is America and an adult black woman has the right to go and please as she wills… McDonald’s could be accused of Brain Washing All American kids for decades but people have never bought charges against McDonald’s…

 

When my children were toddlers I had to drive a different route to not past a McDonald other wise I would have to go get them a “Happy Meal…” I believe McDonald’s had the same effect on a young R. Kelly which has lasted until this day… 

Gayle King A Black man doesn’t ASK you where the Camera is with any intention to do you harm… R. Kelly is just another Rich Black man that the haters are trying to pull down but Gayle King Judge not, that ye be not judged. [2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged… 

Wow… Gayle King You asked R. Kelly what he’d do if a man did to his daughters what’s alleged he’s doing??? He so eloquently expressed “He’d have to Arrest himself…” 🙂 My niece was in a strange situation and my Bishop brother, shotgun in hand, rescued her… Just saying… 

 

That why I say that Black women are also on occasions part of the “Rigged System”  that Black men have to overcome…
I said all of this to say, regardless of all the problems of a “Black Man and Black Woman relationship,” the one thing that should never be tolerated in the Black community is a “Black woman referring to a Black man as a racist “Jim Crow” slur – ‘boy!’… “

SANTA MARIA, CA – JUNE 1: Michael Jackson arrives for his child molestation trial on at the Santa Barbara County Courthouse arrives for his child molestation trial on at the Santa Barbara County Courthouse June 1, 2005 in Santa Maria, California. Jackson is charged in a 10-count indictment with molesting a boy, plying him with liquor and conspiring to commit child abduction, false imprisonment and extortion. (Photo by Aaron Lambert-Pool/Getty Images)

Civil Rights, U,S,A, pic: 30th March 1968, Memphis, Tennessee, Guardsmen with fixed bayonets in Beale Street, Memphis as black marchers stage a protest march (Photo by Rolls Press/Popperfoto/Getty Images)

Wow… I believe R. Kelly is suffering from PTSD Left Over effect of Slavery and extreme childhood poverty that a lot of Black men of my generation suffers from… The Left-side of the brain is responsible for control of the right side of the body, and is the more academic and logical which is the side most ordinary (normal) people live… But Super-Creative High -Energy personalities live out of the right brain; I believe this is where R. Kelly lives…